Frequently Asked Questions
Finding clear answers during divorce in Sarasota, Lakewood Ranch, and beyond
Divorce is one of life’s most overwhelming transitions — but getting answers shouldn’t be. Whether you’re just starting to explore your options or are already in the middle of legal proceedings, our Sarasota-based team at Starting Point by Freedom helps you find clarity, confidence, and direction.
These frequently asked questions cover the most common concerns we hear from clients across Sarasota, Lakewood Ranch, Bradenton, and Tampa Bay — from understanding divorce coaching to navigating parenting plans, mediation, and financial organization.
If you’re searching for compassionate, strategic divorce support in Florida, you’re in the right place. Our goal is to help you take the next step forward with calm, informed confidence.

Understanding Divorce Coaching and Support
What is divorce coaching and how is it different from therapy?
Divorce coaching helps Sarasota-area clients move forward with structure and confidence. Unlike therapy, which focuses on emotional healing, divorce coaching focuses on planning and execution. At Starting Point by Freedom, we help you stay organized, communicate effectively, and make strategic decisions throughout the divorce process.
How can divorce coaching help me if I already have an attorney?
Our Sarasota divorce coaching services complement your attorney’s legal work. We help you gather documents, clarify questions, and manage the emotional side of divorce so you can use your attorney’s time efficiently. Many local family law firms in Sarasota, Lakewood Ranch, and Tampa Bay refer clients to us because we help streamline the legal process.
What if I’m not sure I want a divorce?
Many of our Sarasota clients come to us before they’ve made a final decision. We’ll help you understand your options and clarify your next steps—without pressure or judgment. Whether you choose to reconcile, separate, or proceed, we’ll help you make that decision with confidence.
Financial Organization and Discovery Preparation
What is “discovery” in divorce, and do I need it in Florida?
Discovery is the financial disclosure process required in most Florida divorces, including Sarasota County. You and your spouse must exchange detailed information about income, assets, debts, and expenses. We guide Sarasota and Tampa clients through this process—helping you gather, organize, and present your financial documents clearly and completely.
Why is financial organization especially important in Sarasota divorces?
Sarasota and Lakewood Ranch often involve high-value assets, business ownership, or seasonal residences. Organized financial documentation ensures accuracy, avoids delays, and prevents unnecessary legal costs. Our discovery preparation services help clients protect their financial interests with clarity and precision.
Can you help if my spouse controls the finances?
Yes. Financial control is a common issue in Sarasota divorces, particularly in relationships involving domestic or emotional abuse. We’ll help you uncover financial information, understand your rights, and connect you with trusted financial experts through our parent company, Freedom Financial Services Group.


Parenting Plan Guidance
What is a parenting plan and how does it work under Florida law?
In Florida, a parenting plan is required in all divorces involving children. It outlines custody schedules, decision-making responsibilities, communication methods, and other details about co-parenting. We help Sarasota parents draft thoughtful, Florida-compliant plans that reflect your family’s unique needs.
How can Starting Point help me create a parenting plan in Sarasota?
We guide you through every detail—schedules, communication, and transitions—to help you design a stable, child-centered plan. Our Sarasota parenting plan specialists also consider local school calendars, travel logistics, and special needs to make sure your plan is practical and sustainable.
What if my co-parent refuses to cooperate?
Conflict is common, but we specialize in helping Sarasota and Tampa families find productive paths forward. Through divorce coaching and family mediation, we create space for productive dialogue that focuses on your children’s best interests—not conflict or blame.
Divorce Mediation
How does mediation work in Sarasota and Manatee Counties?
Mediation is often required in Florida before going to trial. It’s a confidential process where a neutral mediator helps both parties reach agreements on parenting, property, and finances. Our Sarasota mediation services offer a supportive, calm setting where both voices can be heard and respected.
Can mediation work in high-conflict or emotionally charged cases?
Yes—with the right support. Our mediators are trained in trauma-informed and domestic abuse awareness practices, ensuring safety and fairness for all participants. We help clients from Sarasota to Tampa approach mediation with preparation, confidence, and control.
Why is mediation often more effective than litigation?
Court battles are expensive, lengthy, and emotionally draining. Mediation allows Sarasota families to resolve disputes privately, saving time, money, and emotional energy. It often results in more durable, peaceful agreements that both parties can uphold.


Domestic Abuse, Faith, and Emotional Well-Being
How do you address domestic abuse in Sarasota divorces?
We are trained to recognize all eight forms of domestic abuse—emotional, financial, physical, verbal, sexual, spiritual, legal, and technological. We partner with local Sarasota and Manatee County resources when additional protection is needed and offer safe, confidential support to help you regain control of your life.
I’m part of a faith-based community—how do I reconcile my beliefs with divorce?
Many of our Sarasota clients face this same struggle. We honor your faith while helping you navigate divorce in a way that aligns with your values. Through compassionate coaching, we help you find peace, strength, and spiritual grounding as you move forward.
What if I feel ashamed, scared, or completely alone?
You’re not alone. Divorce can feel isolating—especially in tight-knit Sarasota or Lakewood Ranch communities—but help is here. We provide a confidential space to process emotions, regain perspective, and take steps toward emotional healing and independence.
Practical Details
Do you only serve Sarasota clients?
While we’re based in the Sarasota area , we also serve clients across Lakewood Ranch, Bradenton, Venice, Longboat Key, Tampa, and virtually throughout the U.S. No matter where you are, you’ll receive the same personal attention and expert guidance.
Are you attorneys or financial advisors?
We’re not attorneys and do not provide legal representation. However, we collaborate closely with trusted Sarasota and Tampa law firms, CPAs, and financial professionals through Freedom Financial Services Group. This partnership ensures you receive comprehensive, coordinated support.
How do I schedule a consultation?
We offer confidential consultations both virtually and in person at our Sarasota office. During your session, we’ll clarify your goals, identify your biggest challenges, and outline the first steps toward a clear, confident path forward. Book your consultation today!

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We are not attorneys and will not give you legal advice. Instead, we are a preferred partner for leading family law firms, because we help clients stay focused, get organized, resolve disputes, and avoid common missteps.



